Today I won a major battle!
We had a complete meltdown at playschool triggered by tiredness and hunger (coz he refused to eat since he was tired of course). At the same time little missy started crying and I knew it was not gonna be a five minute thing since the meltdown continued to become worse when he heard his sister knowing too well she will be conforted first.
Greg's latest fashion is to refuse to walk and I felt like dragging him all the way to the car. However I managed to keep calm and kinda carried him and baby to the car. I didn't speak to him at all. I put him in his carseat. Sorted her out to and left with 2 crying kids ( and so as not to hear them I put the radio full on haha). Home ain't far so while everyone was still crying and tantruming, I took everyone home settled myself and gave them an breast each and here we had total bliss!
Greg is sleeping now and Maya is nearly so and therefore I congratulate myself with some relax time :) I feel extra happy at how I handled a situ where normally I freak out and get all heated up.
You have made known to me the paths of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence. Acts 2:28
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
conquering anger
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011
conquering anger
Today I won a major battle!
We had a complete meltdown at playschool triggered by tiredness and hunger (coz he refused to eat since he was tired of course). At the same time little missy started crying and I knew it was not gonna be a five minute thing since the meltdown continued to become worse when he heard his sister knowing too well she will be conforted first.
Greg's latest fashion is to refuse to walk and I felt like dragging him all the way to the car. However I managed to keep calm and kinda carried him and baby to the car. I didn't speak to him at all. I put him in his carseat. Sorted her out to and left with 2 crying kids ( and so as not to hear them I put the radio full on haha). Home ain't far so while everyone was still crying and tantruming, I took everyone home settled myself and gave them an breast each and here we had total bliss!
Greg is sleeping now and Maya is nearly so and therefore I congratulate myself with some relax time :) I feel extra happy at how I handled a situ where normally I freak out and get all heated up.
We had a complete meltdown at playschool triggered by tiredness and hunger (coz he refused to eat since he was tired of course). At the same time little missy started crying and I knew it was not gonna be a five minute thing since the meltdown continued to become worse when he heard his sister knowing too well she will be conforted first.
Greg's latest fashion is to refuse to walk and I felt like dragging him all the way to the car. However I managed to keep calm and kinda carried him and baby to the car. I didn't speak to him at all. I put him in his carseat. Sorted her out to and left with 2 crying kids ( and so as not to hear them I put the radio full on haha). Home ain't far so while everyone was still crying and tantruming, I took everyone home settled myself and gave them an breast each and here we had total bliss!
Greg is sleeping now and Maya is nearly so and therefore I congratulate myself with some relax time :) I feel extra happy at how I handled a situ where normally I freak out and get all heated up.
2 comments:
- Heidi said...
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good for you!! :)
- March 8, 2011 at 5:34 AM
- Stephanie Wilson she/her @babysteph said...
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Oh I wish I would have read this about 1 hour ago. Deep breaths here. You did the right thing!
Steph - March 11, 2011 at 4:21 PM
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good for you!! :)
Oh I wish I would have read this about 1 hour ago. Deep breaths here. You did the right thing!
Steph
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